Cherished family members went on to be with Jesus, hearts were broken, and the holidays got looked upon with dread rather than excitement. Several family members endured divorce including yours truly , others moved to different states or cities, and time together seemed more and more scarce. Oh how times change, dear friends. I have a feeling you can relate. Statistics show that cardiac events, suicide rates, and even the occurrence of ulcers increase during November and December.
Note, I say this as I pop an antacid into my mouth. Research also shows that women tend to suffer more physical stress than men We already knew that, didn't we ladies? We tend to shoulder more of the holiday burdens: gift shopping, grocery shopping, meal preparation, holiday decorating and cleaning. Conversely, young people under the age of 25 were more likely to report a decrease in stress during the holidays.
Respondents in this group were less likely to have holiday responsibilities weighing on them and considered the time off more of a vacation. There lies the rub for many of us empty nesters.
While mothers are often overcome with holiday responsibilities of cooking, cleaning and trying to create experiences nothing short of a Hallmark Christmas movie, our grown up baby birds are interested in eating, sleeping, and reconnecting with old school friends. There lies the rub. But parents, before we start feeling too frustrated, we need to try and put ourselves in our adult children's shoes. They're shuffling kids back and forth to practices, paying bills and juggling job responsibilities. Quite simply, they're doing grown up stuff. As we flew from New Mexico to KY this year, we realized that life is growing similar for my own daughters.
My oldest had to work late due to patients needing to be seen prior to Thanksgiving. A flat tire and insane traffic on the interstate added to her stress. My other daughter endured an eight hour drive with her fiancee, as they traversed from Pennsylvania to KY just to spend a few days with family. Then reality returns and it's back to grad school and PhD work.
The Christmas season can be magical. It can also stress you out! Give yourself a moment to reflect on the day and start to look forward to this time (and the whole. Surviving The Christmas Holiday Through Prayer - Kindle edition by S. L. Smith, C. M. Smith. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or.
We tend to totally exhaust ourselves, trying to ensure that everyone is filled to the brim with joy and heart-warming memories. Or perhaps we've finally accepted our impending mortality and will do anything necessary to ensure our children remember us fondly.
Oh, what a number we parents do on our psyche. It's only taken me 27 years of parenthood to realize that our daughters or sons are not clones of ourselves. And praise Jesus, would we really want them to be? Those memories also linger, making us determined to shield them from any emotional harm. But again, it's time to be raw and real.
You can check out the exact verbiage on your own: No wonder it seems so hilarious to us--it hits way too close to home. Another wrinkle in the holiday season involves the millions of divorced families struggling with aligning their calendars with their ex-spouses, siblings, married children, etc.
Can any of you relate? But it could have been much worse. My ex and I have tried hard to never criticize one another in front of children. We try. No, it's not always easy, but it's called grace and mercy. After all, I want my daughters to have a healthy relationship with their father and his side of the family. He feels the same about mine. As Christian parents, we must set the example. They, too, will eventually be required to deal with the pain and stress of juggling family time during the holidays. They anticipated pain but it ended up not being as bad as they'd feared.
We parents could say the same as we anticipate the empty test.
Often, we're required to do an Oscar-worthy performance, covering up the anxiety and depression we've endured during this new stage of life. I'm up for it, as I refuse to require endless pity from my children. That's not fair to them, as they've got enough on their plate. The family is, however, forced by Drew to join hands for a prayer he scripted for Brian to read before Christmas dinner.
And a living nativity scene is briefly spotlighted. Later, Brian sees a pornographic image from the shoot online. And a gay couple kisses. Even the bravest parents feel timid about discussing sex with their 8- to year-olds! This resource offers reassuring, humorous, real-life anecdotes along with reliable information to help you with this challenging task.
Tom hits Drew over the head with a shovel, knocking him out. Drew blasts Brian with snowballs, hitting him hard in the crotch and face. An angry Alicia hurls a Christmas gift at Drew. Brian smashes his computer monitor. Slapstick tomfoolery includes an out-of-control toboggan ride, a slide down a banister and a fall from a ladder while hanging Christmas lights.
The s-word is heard a half-dozen times. When Brian uses it in front of his parents, they don't even blink. Those words are joined by "h," "a--" and "b--ch. Most of the characters drink. And Drew launches an advertising campaign for spiked eggnog that promises to help drinkers get through the holidays. During a montage showing people growing increasingly frustrated with the Christmas season, a grandmotherly woman who seems prepared to bake Christmas cookies instead sticks her head in the oven.
Okay, I give up. It's so bad, Santa has decided to replace lumps of coal with Surviving Christmas tickets in the stockings of especially bad children. You can feel the film reaching for a zaniness it never grasps, aspiring to become a Christmas Vacation or What About Bob? Affleck is a big part of the problem. They do get it right on one basic assumption—all that holiday togetherness can expose the weaknesses of our bonds.
But it doesn't have to be that way. Families willing to make the effort can use the Christmas season as an opportunity to strengthen those ties. To get a head start, kick off your holiday season by not watching Surviving Christmas together. Mike Mitchell. Christopher Lyon. Plugged In helps college student stand-up for his belief "Thanks for the great job you do in posting movie and television reviews online.
Watch This Review. We hope this review was both interesting and useful. Please share it with family and friends who would benefit from it as well. Movie Review Ben Affleck stars as Drew Latham, a clueless, wealthy and overly excitable executive who suddenly longs for his childhood Chicago home at Christmastime.
Positive Elements Though Mr. Spiritual Content Despite the fact that it's Christmas, very little mention is made of Christ—or for that matter, anything spiritual. Recommended Resource. Buy Now. Violent Content Tom hits Drew over the head with a shovel, knocking him out. Crude or Profane Language The s-word is heard a half-dozen times. Drug and Alcohol Content Beer. Other Negative Elements During a montage showing people growing increasingly frustrated with the Christmas season, a grandmotherly woman who seems prepared to bake Christmas cookies instead sticks her head in the oven.
Pro-social Content. Objectionable Content. Summary Advisory. Plot Summary. Christian Beliefs.